Rites of passage are sacred events and celebrations that mark the passage of a person or group through the life cycle, from one stage to another, from one role or social position to another. Intuitively, these rites serve at least four functions:
1. Safe passage
Because passing from one stage into the next can be an anxiety-producing experience, the rite “gives permission for" - or legitimatize the anxiety, and then allays it by giving meaning to the experience. We make the "passage" from one life stage to another safe and clear.
2. Moments of learning
We will provide an atmosphere in which learning will take place. For example, acknowledging the reality of the passing from childhood into young adulthood aids in accepting life without the expectations and limitations of childhood experience. We will recognize what we are leaving behind as we welcome the next new and exciting chapter.
3. Connection to community
Rites of passage celebrate the connecting of individuals to a community. As people transition into their next phase of life, confirming their connection to community is an important aspect in what may otherwise be a lonely experience.
4. Connection to self
Each event will reflect the individual’s personal interests and story, honoring their path to date and acknowledging their uniqueness in the world. |